Showing posts with label Community. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Community. Show all posts

Saturday, 15 June 2013

Forgiveness in Him

Today’s Gospel Text: One of the Pharisees asked him to eat with him, and he went into the Pharisee's house, and took his place at table. 37 And behold, a woman of the city, who was a sinner, when she learned that he was at table in the Pharisee's house, brought an alabaster flask of ointment, 38 and standing behind him at his feet, weeping, she began to wet his feet with her tears, and wiped them with the hair of her head, and kissed his feet, and anointed them with the ointment. 39 Now when the Pharisee who had invited him saw it, he said to himself, "If this man were a prophet, he would have known who and what sort of woman this is who is touching him, for she is a sinner." 40 And Jesus answering said to him, "Simon, I have something to say to you." And he answered, "What is it, Teacher?" 41 "A certain creditor had two debtors; one owed five hundred denarii, and the other fifty. 42 When they could not pay, he forgave them both. Now which of them will love him more?" 43 Simon answered, "The one, I suppose, to whom he forgave more." And he said to him, "You have judged rightly." 44 Then turning toward the woman he said to Simon, "Do you see this woman? I entered your house, you gave me no water for my feet, but she has wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. 45 You gave me no kiss, but from the time I came in she has not ceased to kiss my feet. 46 You did not anoint my head with oil, but she has anointed my feet with ointment. 47 Therefore I tell you, her sins, which are many, are forgiven, for she loved much; but he who is forgiven little, loves little." 48 And he said to her, "Your sins are forgiven." 49 Then those who were at table with him began to say among themselves, "Who is this, who even forgives sins?" 50 And he said to the woman, "Your faith has saved you; go in peace."  
8 Soon afterward he went on through cities and villages, preaching and bringing the good news of the kingdom of God. And the twelve were with him, 2 and also some women who had been healed of evil spirits and infirmities: Mary, called Mag'dalene, from whom seven demons had gone out, 3 and Joan'na, the wife of Chuza, Herod's steward, and Susanna, and many others, who provided for them out of their means. Luke 7:36-8:3

Reflection: Some category of people never change, may be they like to take pride in their culture, which they often consider as superior.

There could be some who are humble among them but humbler than their proud neighbor and yet, according to their category.

Can they be humbler still and more than the humble man outside of their community?

Here in the gospel we seem to have had a similar situation.

Jesus was invited by a Pharisee to eat at his house and he apparently seemed to be a humble Pharisee acknowledging the gifts of Jesus and thus feels the need to honor him.

Yet he would not honor the guest with the honor due a guest and thus did not provide him water to wash his feet, nor give Jesus the kiss of welcome nor anointed his head with oil.

No wonder the scripture reminds us that; “For the beginning of pride is sin, and the man who clings to it pours out abominations. Ecclus 10:13

On the other hand the sinful woman who refused to cling to any pride, humbly came forward knowing what her fate could invite; the ridicule of the righteous Pharisees.

She was not disappointed and received her reward for her humility; the forgiveness of all her sins, the freedom from the bondage of sin.

One of the greatest blessings of the sacrament of reconciliation, which is normally sown in humility of heart, is the forgiveness of sin through the ministry of the Church entrusted to it by Christ Jesus.  (cfr.Jn. 20:23)

And, if to humility is added the love of God, issuing forth from a sincere heart, then one will reap abundance of graces through the one from all good things come.

Prayer: Lord, pour out your love in me and teach me the path of humility that I may find forgiveness in thee.

DD = Dedicated Discipleship:  Come grow in the Lord with us

Monday, 4 March 2013

What Forgiveness

Today’s Gospel Text:  Then Peter came up and said to him, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?" 22 Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you seven times, but seventy times seven.
23 "Therefore the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who wished to settle accounts with his servants. 24 When he began the reckoning, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents; 25 and as he could not pay, his lord ordered him to be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and payment to be made. 26 So the servant fell on his knees, imploring him, 'Lord, have patience with me, and I will pay you everything.' 27 And out of pity for him the lord of that servant released him and forgave him the debt. 28 But that same servant, as he went out, came upon one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii; and seizing him by the throat he said, 'Pay what you owe.' 29 So his fellow servant fell down and besought him, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you.' 30 He refused and went and put him in prison till he should pay the debt. 31 When his fellow servants saw what had taken place, they were greatly distressed, and they went and reported to their lord all that had taken place. 32 Then his lord summoned him and said to him, 'You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you besought me; 33 and should not you have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?' 34 And in anger his lord delivered him to the jailers, till he should pay all his debt. 35 So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart." Matt 18:21-35

Reflection: Living in a community is not an easy task, we often have to rub shoulders with those who are less sensitive or over sensitive about smaller matters and are hurt about many things that relate to day to day living.

The smaller matters of injustices and wrong that take place daily may be easily handled with the grace of the Lord and a generous heart.

But what happens to a repetitive hurting process which many a times seems deliberately intended? 


This is where arises the difficulty, because our patience is tested and so too our faith in God.

There is always room made for justification for holding on to the many hurts and bitter moments of life. We could lose out on the greater work that the Lord could be doing or wanting to do in and through us as his instrument.

By holding on to hurt, bitterness and unforgiveness we could miss out on the Lord’s plan to use us as his instrument of salvation and to bring glory to his name.

The onus to seek forgiveness from the ones whom we have harmed, within the community, is to act brotherly and to forgive is to act like a brother who cares.

How can we not forgive a fellow Christian, more so when they have asked for forgiveness or is already repentant of what they have done?

In the parable Jesus brings out the truth of the fellow servant who begs and pleads for mercy and despite all his pleadings for mercy and forgiveness he is not forgiven. 

Petty attitude, self-centered behavior, short sightedness are all fruit of a sin that doesn’t allow the divine grace to work in ourselves but rather allows our own passions to play the dominant role.

Prayer:  Strengthen and teach us to forgive Lord as you forgave your enemy.

DD = Dedicated Discipleship:  Come grow in the Lord with us

Wednesday, 15 August 2012

Purpose of Forgiveness

Today’s Gospel Text: Then Peter came up and said to him, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?" 22 Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you seven times, but seventy times seven. 23 "Therefore the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who wished to settle accounts with his servants. 24 When he began the reckoning, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents; 25 and as he could not pay, his lord ordered him to be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and payment to be made. 26 So the servant fell on his knees, imploring him, 'Lord, have patience with me, and I will pay you everything.' 27 And out of pity for him the lord of that servant released him and forgave him the debt. 28 But that same servant, as he went out, came upon one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii; and seizing him by the throat he said, 'Pay what you owe.' 29 So his fellow servant fell down and besought him, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you.' 30 He refused and went and put him in prison till he should pay the debt. 31 When his fellow servants saw what had taken place, they were greatly distressed, and they went and reported to their lord all that had taken place. 32 Then his lord summoned him and said to him, 'You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you besought me; 33 and should not you have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?' 34 And in anger his lord delivered him to the jailers, till he should pay all his debt. 35 So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart." Matt 18:21-35

Reflection: It is always good to remind ourselves of the great injunction of our beloved Lord to forgive our brothers and sisters in the Lord, even seventy times seven.

All those familiar with the language of the scripture know for sure that this exhortation invites us to forgive our brothers and sisters seventy times seven, which in reality means ever forgiving and never withholding that forgiveness.

Here I would like to look into one aspect of the motive or the reason for such an exhortation to forgive always, it could lead to a tendency to be tolerant of the wayward behavior of individuals in our midst.

We could be breeding a community in which we could go on sinning again and again and there could be no end to this wrongdoing.  If such wrongdoing continues on, then what witness could this Christian Community be to the world, where good deeds is the criteria for judging things.

That brings to the fore the whole human weakness and the reason for such weaknesses in individual and the need to cry to God for a spirit of patience and fortitude while dealing with people.

Unsound character is not always the fruit of unsound formation, it happens to creep in our sinful nature. In the case of some, even the best formation fails to form that most perfect character.  What is important is to have a desire to walk righteously and to keep working at it with the Lord’s help and grace. 

The Christian community was to be that crucible in which every type of individuals was to find its nest and would be working to develop their character in keeping with God’s word and God’s help.  While God would be working out his priority in the lives of the individual, the individual on the other hand would seek to work out on God’s priority in their lives.

True love exists and is made visible in such a community of the weak, where in we are still dedicated to love and care no matter what the other is going through and how the other behaves.

It is the love manifested in such a situation of unconditional forgiveness that a perfect transformation would take place, more so because God would be working out his own priority in the life of  the person, as he will keep infusing his patience in our lives.

Prayer: Lord, teach me patience as I seek your grace to forgive and love as you love and forgive us. 

DD = Dedicated Discipleship:  Come grow in the Lord with us