Showing posts with label Detachment. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Detachment. Show all posts

Thursday, 3 January 2013

Attachments of Life

Today’s Gospel Text: The next day again John was standing with two of his disciples; 36 and he looked at Jesus as he walked, and said, "Behold, the Lamb of God!" 37 The two disciples heard him say this, and they followed Jesus. 38 Jesus turned, and saw them following, and said to them, "What do you seek?" And they said to him, "Rabbi" (which means Teacher), "where are you staying?" 39 He said to them, "Come and see." They came and saw where he was staying; and they stayed with him that day, for it was about the tenth hour. 40 One of the two who heard John speak, and followed him, was Andrew, Simon Peter's brother. 41 He first found his brother Simon, and said to him, "We have found the Messiah" (which means Christ). 42 He brought him to Jesus. Jesus looked at him, and said, "So you are Simon the son of John? You shall be called Cephas" (which means Peter). John 1:35-42

Reflection: Just a little while ago I received a phone call from a friend who shared of how their two year old pet died and the family is in tears of missing the dear one and every look at the empty cage leads to more pain and agony.

As we grow through life we often grow in attachment to things, to peoples, to pet ideas and the many activities of life. 

The secret of attachment is familiarity and comfort, security and momentary peace, the filling up of a deep inner void and emptiness.

The important or the precious things of life gain greater meaning and affection than the lesser things of life.  Here the greater and the lesser is each ones subjective interpretation of things.

How difficult it is to let go of someone so close and dear to us, at times it fills us with such a big void and vacuum that we begin to wonder how we will every live without the other.  It is painful and often the pain sets the lachrymal glands to over work.

It could be much easier to give what is not yours and to be detached from it.

In the Gospel text we have John the Baptist with two of his disciples and yet he lets go of them so easily; an act of perfect detachment for a cause which is noble and true.

Nothing is more important for a perfect disciple than to see how his master is pleased and at the same time carrying the genuine concern for their own.  We could have Masters who could sacrifice someone else’s life and can be perfectly detached from others for their self gain.

If only, each one knew why they are on this earth, to please whom; whether self, others or God, then they would not be holding on to things material or abstract, neither to individuals nor to pets.

What is more they will lead those, who are with them, with godly wisdom and help and encourage them to seek God’s glory rather than their own glory.

Prayer: "The Lord is my portion," says my soul, "therefore I will hope in him." Lam 3:24 

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Tuesday, 6 November 2012

Own Cross

Today’s Gospel Text: Now great multitudes accompanied him; and he turned and said to them, 26 "If any one comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple. 27 Whoever does not bear his own cross and come after me, cannot be my disciple. 28 For which of you, desiring to build a tower, does not first sit down and count the cost, whether he has enough to complete it? 29 Otherwise, when he has laid a foundation, and is not able to finish, all who see it begin to mock him, 30 saying, 'This man began to build, and was not able to finish.' 31 Or what king, going to encounter another king in war, will not sit down first and take counsel whether he is able with ten thousand to meet him who comes against him with twenty thousand? 32 And if not, while the other is yet a great way off, he sends an embassy and asks terms of peace. 33 So therefore, whoever of you does not renounce all that he has cannot be my disciple. Luke 14:25-33

Reflection: Whoever does not bear his own cross and come after me, cannot be my disciple. (vs.  27)

There is the cross of Christ which we as Christians are called to participate in a greater measure than what we normally do. 

The cross of Christ was endured for our salvation, so that we may be saved from the guilt and punishment that was due to us on account of our sins.

Though we are called to participate in the cross of Christ, Christ also primarily calls us to carry our own crosses.

What are these crosses of our lives which we are called to carry and which in a way is a gateway to our salvation and completely expresses our faith and love for Christ?

He reveals to us two things about this cross in the first verse of this passage (vs. 26).

The first is primary and is on account of him. In other words the crosses in our lives will be on account of him. If we have to follow him and want to be with him then the crosses are an unavoidable part of our lives. 

So it brings us to the second point on the cross, which is giving up or detaching oneself from our many attachments beginning with father, mother, brother, sisters, wife, children, etc.,  and above all even one’s own life and its many sinful desires and pleasures.

Sometimes this cross could be the mere obsessions for a good life and health for which sake we are willing to dabble with methods and techniques which are diabolic and contrary to the gospel.

May the Lord open our eyes to know this truth of the kingdom and our hearts to his grace so as to give up the many attachments that does not glorify him.

Prayer:  God our Father, we thank you for revealing to us the wisdom behind the cross of Christ.

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